At the same time, it was the Deaf that understood the meaning behind the gestures and had fun, whereas the hearing spectators were confused and embarrassed.
The performance Delighting (2024), presented at Pickle Bar in Berlin and the exhibition Tears of Joy at Zachęta – National Gallery of Art in Warsaw, yet again discussed the topic of aesthetic perception of sign language. Kotowski made references to the video work Wonderland by the Turkish artist Erkan Özgen, which depicted a Deaf boy narrating the experience of war in Syria and fleeing from his home country in sign language. Kotowski took a step back and looked at the artist looking at his subject, displaying how colonial the seemingly innocent focus on aesthetic and expression of gestures may be.
Another topic Kotowski tackled in his work is how the Deaf function in their closest relationships. As the artist noted, 90% of Deaf are born into hearing families, where most of the time none of the parents is fluent in sign language. In consequence, their communication is often limited to very basic exchanges and based on gestures created within the family rather than any official sign language. In the video Death in Everyday Life (2020) the artist looked into home sign languages, basing the work on interviews with 22 Deaf people from hearing families. Kotowski inspected how these spontaneous, insider communication codes depict death.
This subject matter reappeared in the show Love Ritual (2022) at the Komuna Warszawa theatre, realised in collaboration with dramaturge Alicja Kobielarz and performers Marta Abramczyk and Adam Stoyanov, appearing alongside Kotowski onstage. The show, focused on Deaf people’s private family stories, sometimes reverses roles and throws the hearing off their privileged position. As Anna Pajęcka wrote for ‘Dwutygodnik’ magazine: