MK: Thank you very much. So what is most characteristic of the culture of our table?
BG: Hospitality and respect. ‘A good housewife could make bread from a stone’, the adage goes. A Polish home will always welcome and feed its guests. Seating at the table has always been extremely important, who occupies the seat of honour. In peasant homes, where patriarchy still prevails, the man sits at the head, and children cannot leave the table without permission – out of respect for the table, for the food and for their parents. I remember this from my childhood. This respect for elders was present. As a young man, returning from the army, I kissed my father’s hands, also at Easter and Christmas, and when my brother and I were going on a longer journey.
MK: And the Polish tendency for exaggeration? What about the principle of going big beyond one’s means? Is this an element of dazzling by splendour? Showing an advantage?
BG: Of course. When the emperor came here for the baptism of Poland, he was supposedly taken aback with surprise at how grand the feast was. I’m particularly fascinated by Teutonic cuisine. And the grand master would invite a dozen or so young knights distinguished on the battlefield to the table of honour in the Malbork or Königsberg castle, and he’d prepare a special table for them, placed on a dais. And these young men, these boys, were served by the greatest officials of the order, headed by the great master, to show their admiration for them. At the end of such a feast, each of them received a medal from the grand master with the inscription ‘Honour conquers all’. It must have impressed them. They were sitting in a hall that was considered the largest in Europe, eating food at the level of today’s three Michelin stars, cooked for them by the best chefs, an orchestra would be playing, and for entertainment animals from a private zoo would be brought in – all this to dazzle them, make them feel important.