He was likely secretly in love with her.
Friends nicknamed her ‘owl’ due to her large, dark eyes. Fellow writers remembered her as a modest, cheerful, but lonely woman. She remained the only woman part of Kwadryga for a long time – that is, until Elżbieta Szemplińska-Sobolewska appeared on the horizon (more about her in a moment).
Before the war, Rydzewska wrote poems (translated into German, French, Hungarian, Finnish and Latvian). After the war, she only published novels about Kashubian fishermen and miners; for this purpose, she actually wound up taking a job in a mine. She also created radio reports and various versions of her own biography. She has two reported birthdates: on February 16, 1902 and also in 1906, probably in Warsaw, somewhere in Mokotów, most likely to a poor family.
And here is where we come across four scenarios. First, her father died when she was three years old and her mother remarried. Second, she was orphaned by the First World War and then taken care of by the Rydzewska family. Third, she had both parents, and fourth, she came from Georgia, and her parents died during the October Revolution.
The latter clue would be indicated by her second name, Zaira, and her particular beauty, as well as her love for a Georgian merchant – later her husband – with the surname Asłan Bek Barasbi Baytugan (her contact with him shattered her chances of joining the PZPR [Polish United Workers’ Party]).
Rydzewska took her first job as a tutor of reading and writing when she was just 10 years old – paying for her school and university studies this way. She wrote down her first pieces on official forms in the office of the Chapter of the War Order of Virtuti Militari.